Continuing this look at Genesis 1, from a Hebrew perspective, we may note that the Word of God, spoken in
faith, is powerful and effective to create light in the darkness and order out
of confusion and emptiness. In the beginning, everything in God’s creation
worked perfectly and everything made perfect sense. He had spoken all
into existence in faith, hope, and love.
After six days of actively creating,
God instituted the Sabbath – a time to cease from labour, and
to simply rest and be refreshed.
“By the seventh day God completed
His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day from all His work
which He had done. Then God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it,
because in it He rested from all His work which God had created and made.”
(Genesis 2:2–3).
This holy day of rest is so important
that God included it in the Aseret HaDevarim (Ten Words, or
Ten Commandments), chiselling these words onto the stone tablets:
“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep
it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh
day is a Sabbath of YHWH your God; in it you shall not do any work, you or your
son or your daughter, your male or your female servant or your cattle or your
sojourner who stays with you. For in six days YHWH made the
heavens and the earth, the sea and all that is in them, and rested on the
seventh day; therefore YHWH blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.” (Exodus
20:8–11).
Father God also dealt with the problem
of loneliness.
“And YHWH Elohim said: ‘It
is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet (suitable) for
him.’” (Genesis 2:18).
When Adonai placed man in Gan
Eden (the Garden of Eden), He declared that it is not good for a
man to be alone. He saw man’s need for a helper, counterpart, and
companion and, therefore, put Adam into a deep sleep, and took from him a rib
to create a suitable partner for him.
“And YHWH Elohim caused a
deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and
closed up the place with flesh instead thereof. And the rib,
which YHWH Elohim had taken from the man, He made into a woman, and
brought her unto the man.” (Genesis 2:21–22).
In Hebrew, a man is
called ish and a woman, isha, the feminine
form of ish. God uses this term when He woos Israel and
promises a time when Israel will regard Him with fond affection, rather than
stand at arm's length from Him, viewing Him as a stern authority figure.
“‘It will come about in that
day,’ declares YHWH, ‘That you will call Me Ishi (my
Man) and will no longer call Me Ba'ali (my Master).’” (Hosea
2:16).
God wants Israel to serve Him out of
love – love like that of a woman for her husband.
Likewise, His love for Israel is that of a devoted, tender husband. I
wonder if Paul was thinking of these words when he was writing to the Ephesian
believers:
“Be subject to one another out of
reverence for Christ. Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. For
the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His
body, and is Himself its Saviour. As the church is subject to Christ, so let
wives also be subject in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your
wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her, that He might
sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that
He might present the church to Himself in splendour, without spot or wrinkle or
any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. Even so husbands
should love their wives as their own bodies.” (5:21-28).
God is deeply concerned with our intimate relationships – with
Him and with one another. He wants our relationships to be borne of love
and devotion, not ruled through domination, control, manipulation, and
coercion.
Once again, the Hebrew eye sees more
than the Gentile one! Although the word describing Eve has often been
translated as ‘helper’ or ‘helpmate’ the word used for the
role of a wife in Genesis 2:18 is ezer kenegdo, which literally
means a helper against him.
One medieval Torah commentator, Rashi,
comments on this text, saying: "If he [Adam] is worthy, [she will be] a
help [ezer]. If he is not worthy [she will be] against him [kenegdo] for
strife."
The word ezer means
a protector, a guard, an aid, and a help. So we can
understand from this text that helping a husband doesn't means always agreeing.
Woman was not created to be a 'yes person'. There are times when
she must stand in opposition to her husband if he is planning something that is
ungodly or unwise. We can look at the non-Jewish example of Haman’s wife in the book
of Esther. She tried to warn her husband that his attempts to destroy Mordechai
would never succeed because he (Mordechai) was of Jewish origin. The
anti-Semite Haman did not listen to his ezer kenegdo - and, eventually, must have regretted his decision!
As well, being a wife does not mean
that the woman is less important or inferior to her husband. After all,
the Ruach HaKodesh (Holy Spirit) is also called The
Helper. And while being the helper in Scripture
connotes superiority, the addition of kenegdo to the
word ezer reveals that the position of wife is a position of
equality. My wife and I are equal in importance. It is function and responsibility that we are different!