Funeral Music!

Back again after a super week’s holiday with our good friends the Randag family in the Netherlands, and including a great day with our other Dutch friends, the de Kosters. Good friends; good food; good weather; and lots of interesting things to see. The only sad part was having to leave it all behind!

One of the news items that caught my ear this morning was that, according to Britain’s biggest funeral director, Co-Operative Funeralcare, (Christian) hymns now make up only 35 per cent of funeral music.

“So what?” I can almost hear someone ask! Well, there is a sense in which it maybe doesn’t matter that people want secular music played – when the funeral is a secular funeral! However, if a Christian funeral service is requested, then surely that is what should be provided – and expected! When some people apparently request songs such as ­“Highway To Hell" by AC/DC, sadly, from a Biblical perspective, that is exactly the route that has probably been taken.

The survey threw up some other interesting choices of secular music, with “top of the charts” being Frank Sinatra’s “I did it my way”. I can’t really think of a more accurate reflection of a society that – like its Prime Minister – seems to have totally lost its moral (and spiritual) compass. The Bible states, quite directly, that “There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.” (Prov.14:12) and it doesn’t require a university degree in sociology to recognise that “doing it my way” simply doesn’t work.

In this bi-centennial anniversary of the birth of Charles Darwin, it is perhaps salutary to remind ourselves that we live in a world in which, prior to the promised return of the Lord Jesus, death is the ultimate destiny for every living organism – plants, tree, fish, birds, animals yes, and even human beings originally created “in the image of God” (Gen.1:27). It’s a fact of life, and one that we cannot avoid.

In his book The Great Divorce, C.S.Lewis points out that those who end up in hell will be there, not because a loving God sent them there, but because they lived their lives in such a way as to ensure that end for themselves. Indeed, he points out that, as those who have not recognised their own sinfulness (the result of that first sin of Adam: see I Cor.15:22) and accepted the salvation purchased for us at Calvary, on that first Good Friday, being in heaven – in the nearer presence of that loving God Who is holiness and purity – would be as bad as hell in any case!

So where am I going here? I suppose that I am trying to emphasise that the important question is not “What music would I like to have played at my funeral service?”, but “Where will I (the real me as opposed to just the mortal remains) be when my funeral service is taking place?” It’s a question that is, I would respectfully suggest, worthy of your consideration!

It's Resurrection Day.

He is risen! The stone is rolled away!

Glory, Hallelujah!

May the joy of the resurrection, and all that it implies, fill your heart and mind this day - and every day until the risen Lord returns for His own.

Holiday!!

Tomorrow, my dear wife and I set off for a week's holiday. :-) Because of that, I may not be posting again until the latter part of next week. However, if the opportunity presents itself, I will try to add something before then.

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Now here's a thought!

The following arrived in the post, yesterday. I'm certain that it was written "tongue-in-cheek", but the point is worth pondering! It came as a graphic - unfortunately, when I scanned it it was too small to be easily readable! :-(

"Five ways to stay safe!

1. Avoid riding in cars: 20% of all accidents are a result of riding in cars.

2. Don't stay at home: 17% of all accidents occur here.

3. Avoid walking on pavements in the street: 14% of all accidents happen to pedestrians.

4. Avoid travelling by air, rail, or water: 16% 0f all accidents involve these forms of transport.

5. Above all, avoid hospitals: 32% of deaths occur in hospitals.

Of the remaining 1%, only 0.001% of deaths occur in a church building, and these usually involve people who are already very ill. Therefore, statistically speaking, the safest place to be is in church. Bible Study groups are also very safe, with an even lower percentage of deaths, or serious accidents.

So, for safety's sake, attend church, and study the Bible. IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE!!"

Of course, the life that is saved is not just saved for time, but also for eternity! If you would like to know more, please feel free to contact me through a "comment" (that will not be published), or even through my AllExperts page (see the side bar).

Advice from a 7-year-old!?!

So! If further proof were needed that the world has gone completely mad, it must be the reports that a local radio station (Mercia FM, Coventry, England) has invited a seven-year-old girl to be its “agony aunt”, after she ’phoned in with some advice for a caller who wanted to dump her boyfriend! The broadcaster was apparently so impressed with her advice - to go bowling with friends and drink a mug of milk – that she was offered a weekly slot to give tips to thousands of adult listeners. Breakfast host Andy Goulding said adults responded to the child's straight-talking attitude.

Interestingly, on the same web page from which I gleaned this information, there was a link to an article that showed how the State examinations for schools in England (and Wales and N.Ireland) have been “dumbed down”. One has to ask if our society can be dumbed down any further than having a seven-year-old provide “advice” for adults. The very fact that so many appear to think that this is an acceptable state of affairs surely confirms that, as a nation, we are suffering from something much more serious than a credit crunch/recession. We are suffering from an increasingly steep decline in standards of morality, intellect, and plain old common sense! There is also, surely, a hint of cynicism about the whole situation. Are adults really taking this “advice” seriously, or is it more of a case of a certain type of adult finding it all very amusing that such a “cute” little girl should be coming out with seemingly adult responses?

Personally, I blame the parent(s) for permitting this little girl – who should be out playing with children of her own age group – to be exploited in this way. According to the writings of the Biblical Book of Psalms, “Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from Him.” (127:3). Those same children should be raised up “…with the discipline and instruction approved by the Lord.” (Eph.6:4).

Perhaps someone, with sufficient influence, will act as “agony aunt” to the parent(s) of this little girl, and offer the advice that childhood is short enough and should be enjoyed as a child!